Women's Health

This whole debate about women's health and what's offensive to women and what causes obesity in women is stupid to me. Yes some people have eating problems, yes some have low self esteem, and yes advertising the "ideal" woman hurts many female's self image. But i feel that the obesity itself is not the problem, its the confidence. Some people are shunned for weight or their size but i feel if you have confidence in yourself that backs it up then you are just as equal. Its when your self esteem is low and you hate yourself is when the obesity becomes a problem. Women have had this issue with their body forever and problem lies with themselves not offensive advertising. They take it to heart then it in turn ruins their confidence but you have to find your own "inner beauty" and confidence to make yourself proud. The main thing is you be you, and be proud of it. Don't say you want to be skinny but not change anything and just complain about it. If you really wanted to change you would get up and do something about it. I feel it's usually just a guilt trip to get surrounding people to feel sorry about the person, and it is that person's way of getting love. It's not worth it, be proud of yourself, and if you're not proud of something, change it.